Even for a film titled My Dead Friend Zoe, the opening moments of Kyle Hausmann-Stoke’s movie are unexpectedly vibrant. Set in Afghanistan in 2016, two female American soldiers ride in a Humvee, blasting Rihanna’s Umbrella with carefree energy. Zoe (Natalie Morales) jokes with Merit (Sonequa Martin-Green), mocking the idea of attending therapy—only for the scene to cut to years later, where they are sitting in a veterans’ counseling session. But in a sobering twist, Zoe isn’t really there—only Merit can see her.
Starring Morgan Freeman and Ed Harris, My Dead Friend Zoe blends humor with the raw realities of trauma and grief. Hausmann-Stoke, a veteran himself, dedicates the film to two platoon mates who died by suicide, grounding the story in authenticity. Unlike many somber war dramas, this film uses a playful and witty tone to challenge the usual narratives around PTSD and loss.
Zoe, appearing only to Merit, functions as both her comfort and her burden—similar to Brad Pitt’s Fight Club role. Their dynamic shifts between buddy comedy and psychological haunting, especially as Merit attempts to move forward, including an awkward date with a retirement home worker (Utkarsh Ambudkar).
Meanwhile, Freeman plays a tough but compassionate counselor determined to push Merit beyond her defenses, while Harris portrays her Vietnam veteran grandfather, Dale, who is grappling with early Alzheimer’s. Merit, who once followed in his military footsteps, now struggles with his reluctance to accept help.
The film’s shifts between past and present can feel uneven, but its sincerity and strong performances keep it compelling. Martin-Green delivers a powerful lead performance, while Morales shines as the sharp-tongued Zoe. Freeman and Harris, both in top form, add emotional weight to the story.
With its unique mix of dark humor and heartfelt reflection, My Dead Friend Zoe defies expectations, offering a fresh and moving perspective on veteran experiences.
Rating: 3 out of 4 stars
Running Time: 101 minutes
Rated R for language
