Popular Pakistani actress Maryam Noor recently opened up in a heartfelt and candid podcast interview, shedding light on several pressing societal issues — from marriage pressures on women to the reality of friendships in the entertainment industry. Known for her bold and honest opinions, the actress did not hold back in sharing personal insights and hard-hitting truths.
I Never Missed Having a Brother
Maryam Noor began by sharing a personal detail about her family. She revealed, I don’t have any brothers — we are just sisters — but I’ve never missed having a brother in my life.The actress emphasized that families without sons are complete and can be just as loving, strong, and united.
She further commented on the common cultural mindset in South Asian families, where many couples keep trying for a son. Parents who have many children in the hope of having a boy are not at fault. It’s a natural desire,she said. Just like people who only have sons wish they had a daughter — it’s about balance, not preference.
Girls Face More Pressure to Get Married
Maryam also addressed the deeply rooted social pressure on girls when it comes to marriage. She pointed out that this pressure starts mounting particularly after the age of 23. It’s like a ticking clock for girls. Society begins to question everything — their age, their looks, their behavior — all while men the same age face no such scrutiny.
She shared how, in many families, if a daughter is found speaking to a boy or in a relationship, the reaction is often extreme. It’s like doomsday for the family. The response is immediate — rush her into marriage before someone finds out.
Her take reflects the dual standards women face in matters of relationships and personal freedom, sparking a much-needed conversation among listeners.
Mobile Phone Checks Between Couples Are Okay
In one of the more controversial parts of the conversation, Maryam Noor expressed her views on trust and transparency in relationships. If there’s any doubt, it’s okay for a husband and wife to check each other’s mobile phones. There’s nothing wrong with that.
She further elaborated that this behavior is not limited to spouses. Parents check their children’s phones, children check their parents’, and friends do it too. It’s all about the level of trust and transparency.
However, she clarified that although she has never checked her husband’s phone, she wouldn’t mind if he ever decided to check hers. There’s nothing secretive in my phone. I’ve never hidden anything. And even if I check his phone, I wouldn’t go through conversations with his friends or family. Some boundaries should remain.
Showbiz Friendships Are Often Conditional
When asked about the nature of friendships in the media and entertainment industry, Maryam shared a rather eye-opening perspective. Friendships in showbiz are often conditional and transactional. People are good friends only as long as they’re doing the same level of work.
She explained how dynamics change the moment someone gains more fame or success. The relationships shift. The person who becomes more successful often distances themselves from others. It’s heartbreaking, but that’s the reality.
Maryam urged people to be cautious about forming connections in the media world. Many people in this industry use each other. When developing friendships, one should look deeper — at intentions and values — not just appearances or status.
A Bold Voice in a Reserved Industry
Maryam Noor’s podcast appearance is being praised for its honesty and relevance. At a time when many celebrities shy away from personal or controversial topics, she chose to speak up about societal pressures, relationship boundaries, and the hypocrisy in professional circles.
Her candid discussion is not only resonating with fans but also encouraging more women to voice their truths — especially around topics considered taboo or sensitive in our culture.
