In a candid interview with a private journal, renowned actress Haba Ali Khan shared intimate details about her journey through her career, motherhood, divorce, and the ongoing custody battle for her son. Her story provides a heartfelt glimpse into the personal challenges she has faced behind the glamour of the entertainment industry.
Early Career and Marriage
Haba Ali Khan began her acting career with much promise and quickly gained recognition for her talent. However, at the height of her early success, she made the significant decision to get married. Reflecting on this period, Haba said, “I got married at the beginning of my career and later took a break from acting for some time. I didn’t think of returning to showbiz for a few years.”
Her break from acting became longer when she welcomed her son. Haba chose to focus entirely on motherhood, stepping away from her professional life to nurture her newborn. “My son was born, and I took a further break from acting,” she shared.
Divorce and Its Aftermath
Shortly after the birth of her son, Haba’s marriage ended in divorce. The separation was amicable, but it had a profound impact on her mental health. “Neither my husband was bad nor there was any flaw or deficiency in me. I just decided to divorce due to a lack of mental harmony,” she explained. “There was no fight even then.”
Despite the peaceful nature of the divorce, Haba faced societal pressure and judgment, which led to a period of depression and mental health struggles. She candidly spoke about how the negative remarks and gossip from others affected her well-being. “After the divorce, due to hearing different things from people, I went into depression and suffered from mental problems for many years.”
Self-Reflection and Regret
During the interview, Haba expressed feelings of self-blame and regret about her divorce. She often wondered if she could have done more to save her marriage. “Sometimes I used to blame myself as the reason for the divorce. Even today, I still think that I should not have gotten married, or if I had, I should have kept it together,” she admitted.
Comparing herself to other women in her family, Haba reflected on the strength and tolerance they showed in their marriages. “While many women in my family were saving their homes, I was a little less tolerant. My parents also had fights,” she confessed. “I often wonder why I did not endure. I should have developed some flexibility in myself, especially after my son.”
The Custody Battle
One of the most challenging aspects of her post-divorce life has been the custody battle for her son. Although she did not delve deeply into the ongoing legal issues, it is evident that this situation has added to her emotional burden. The actress’s primary focus remains her child’s well-being, and she continues to navigate the complexities of co-parenting and legal disputes.
Moving Forward
Despite the difficulties she has faced, Haba Ali Khan remains hopeful and determined. Her journey is a testament to her resilience and strength as she balances her career, personal life, and the challenges of single motherhood. Through her openness, she hopes to shed light on the realities of mental health struggles and the pressures faced by women in similar situations.
Haba’s story is not just one of struggle but also of courage and perseverance. By sharing her experiences, she aims to inspire others to seek help, stay strong, and believe in the possibility of a brighter future.
